Wednesday, July 30, 2025

9 LIES THAT CAN AFFECT YOU AFTER MARRIAGE.

1. I’m a virgin, but you’re not.
When the truth surfaces, trust dies. It’s not about past mistakes, it’s about lying.

2. I’m medically fit, but you hid health issues.
Hiding genotype (AS/SS), HIV, hepatitis, fertility or mental health conditions is not love, it’s deception.

3. I’ve never had a child before, yet you have one (or more).
Lies about previous children or secret parenting can tear a home apart.



4. I’m financially stable, but you're drowning in debt.
Pretending to be rich and later dragging your spouse into financial wahala is betrayal.

5. I’m from a good family but you hid family problems.
Some hide tribal, cultural, or spiritual matters. Marriage doesn’t erase those things, it magnifies them.

6. I’m done with my ex, but you’re still in contact.
Carrying emotional baggage or secret ties into marriage is like giving yourself a poison.

7. I’m a graduate / I’m educated,  but the certificate is fake or you never went to school.
Academic lies breed shame and disrespect later on.

8. I want kids but deep down, you don’t.
Saying what the other person wants to hear just to marry them is wickedness.

9. I’m potent or fertile, but you already know there’s a medical issue.

Hiding infertility or impotence is unfair. Marriage is partnership, not manipulation.
What you hide today can break your home tomorrow.

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