It's been a while I wrote specifically to ladies.
These things can be a game changer for us all.
These things can be a game changer for us all.
📌Firstly, resist the urge to be rude. Yes, there is a need for self awareness and understanding your feminine powers, and as you climb the ladder of success, you might start thinking you've arrived but hear this, nothing put people off as rudeness.
Social media isn't a leveller in the way you think it is. It gives everyone a fair playing ground but that doesn't mean, everyone is now your mate.
Respectfully speak to those who aren't your mate.
Respectfully turn down proposals as well.
There is absolutely no need to insult a man's generation just because you feel he has no right to ask you out.
Rudeness is a big turn off. Work on this area.
📌Secondly, as you cover up and look modest in your look, also look modest in your speech. I guess this is the reason why looks aren't everything.
It isn't enough to just to look modest, whereas your speech can literally send someone to an early grave. I remember when a young man complained about a particular lady which judging by looks alone should be given A1.
Well, I felt he was just complaining as some men do until I got a little bit of her venom. She started with, 'With all due respect......', you already know that 80% of the time, when people begin a statement with that, what they want to say is utterly disrespectful. No jokes 🤣
I laughed hard when she told me she can't take nonsense and will give it to anyone hot hot the way it is. ' I'm not proud, I just have zero tolerance for bull shit.
The fact that you have zero tolerance for bull shit doesn't mean your words must be time bombs.
You can firmly state your points. I know there will be times to show this other side but when it becomes a normal occurrence, watch it.
It isn't enough to just to look modest, whereas your speech can literally send someone to an early grave. I remember when a young man complained about a particular lady which judging by looks alone should be given A1.
Well, I felt he was just complaining as some men do until I got a little bit of her venom. She started with, 'With all due respect......', you already know that 80% of the time, when people begin a statement with that, what they want to say is utterly disrespectful. No jokes 🤣
I laughed hard when she told me she can't take nonsense and will give it to anyone hot hot the way it is. ' I'm not proud, I just have zero tolerance for bull shit.
The fact that you have zero tolerance for bull shit doesn't mean your words must be time bombs.
You can firmly state your points. I know there will be times to show this other side but when it becomes a normal occurrence, watch it.
📌 Thirdly, if you want to be taken seriously, take your life seriously as well. Are you investing in your brain as you invest in your looks?
When we say this, we are just helping you look at the area of investing in your brain as well and not trying to shame you or tell you how to spend your money. At the end of the day, looks are good but in today's world, you also need brains to thrive and be taken seriously.
You can't scream at a course that cost N20,000 but gladly buy every other thing to enhance your beauty at multiple six figures.
Enhance your beauty ✅
But also enhance your brain. ✅✅
Watch the women making waves. People might talk about their beauty as a plus but what really keeps people glued to them is also their intellect.
There is a young woman who is actively involved in Politics in my state. I've always admired her beauty until I switched on my Television one day and saw her speaking in Channels TV, I was blown away by her intellectual prowess.
This is July, some of us have read no book, paid for no course, added no new knowledge. Not because we are broke but because we are putting every dime into only enhancing our looks.
📌 Fourthly, if you intend to get married one day, invest to get the right marital knowledge. "God will help us" you always say when asked to get the right marital knowledge. Yes, God will help everyone but why didn't you stay at home without going to the University since God will help us?
The same way you prioritize other aspects of your life is the same way you should prioritize your love life.
Someone recently told me, "Ody, I now understand the importance of choosing right and exposing one's self to the right marital knowledge, especially as a lady doing extremely well for herself."
That's just the truth. You don't want to realize you spent years, resources and everything you got to build yourself up only to end up with a spouse who is bent on destroying all you've built.
📌 Fifthly, stay connected to God.
Don't get to a point where you start feeling all sufficient and powerful on your own.
You who were born as a result of a fulfillment of prophecies starts doubting the existence of God.
You who once cried to God to lift you to a height where you can talk about Him freely can't even add JESUS to a post because you want to be all inclusive.
You who couldn't go a day without praying and studying the word can now go weeks without even uttering a short prayer because you are now so busy.
You argue with everyone who thinks success is biblical and name 100 people who don't know God but are successful. What is your parameter to measure success? Wealth and more wealth?
You don't even know what they do behind the scenes. Hear this today, every 'successful' person is using something. They might not tell you and they don't even owe you that information.
If you leave the source, it's just a matter of time before you dry up.
📌Bonus Point.
I know I said five but have this as a bonus point.
A lady who is doing well isn't your competitor. If she is excelling in an area you desire to excel in, simply reach out to her and learn. If she has paid trainings on those areas, pay for them and scale up.
Instead of seeing her as a competitor and harbouring secret beef, reach out and scale up your knowledge.
Talking about investing in your love life, have you taken advantage of the ongoing sale to invest in your love life?
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