Marriage is not just about love. It is about commitment, effort, and showing you, especially on the hard days.
You won’t always feel butterflies. There will be days when your partner annoys you, when life feels overwhelming, and when love has to be a choice, not just a feeling. That’s where real love begins.
Answer their calls. Not because it’s a rule, but because it says, “You still matter to me.” When you're together, don’t let screens steal your attention. Be present. Look into each other’s eyes and listen, even when the day has been long.
Spend time together on purpose. Plan the date nights. Sit and talk without distractions. It doesn’t have to be fancy. It just has to be intentional. Because love dies when time stops being invested.
Keep people around you who support healthy love. Stay away from those who tempt you to settle for less or forget what you have. Loyalty doesn’t start in the bedroom; it starts in the mind and in your choices.
Learn to laugh together. Even in chaos, find something to smile about. That shared joy becomes your strength when everything else feels uncertain.
When you fight and you will remember this: You are not on opposite teams. You either win together, or you lose together. Be kind in the heat of it. Protect your words, even when you are upset.
And please, don’t keep score. Marriage is not 50/50. It’s 100/100. Not “I will give if you do,” but “I will show up fully because I chose this, and I choose you.”
In the end, strong marriages aren’t made by perfect couples. They’re made by two people who stay, grow, and love through it all: together.
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