If you want your relationship to thrive, there are certain attitudes you should be on the lookout for.
Below are most of the attitudes that have destroyed happy Relationships and Marriages.
Below are most of the attitudes that have destroyed happy Relationships and Marriages.
1) You kill your Relationship or Marriage when your partner is not your priority.
2) You kill your relationship when you fail to forgive your partner when he or she offended you. Nobody is perfect and Relationships and Marriage are not exceptional. Learn to tolerate and forgive your partner, it gives value to your Union.
3) You kill your relationship when you repeatedly choose your friends over your partner. Your partner should come first most of the time. Your partner should be your best friend. Without you guys being friends with each other, it will be difficult to enjoy the Relationship. Best friends don't keep secrets, best friends don't keep malice but rather make the best out of their Relationship or Marriage.
4) You kill your relationship when you don’t take the time to connect and communicate with your partner regularly. Communication is one of the live wires of a Relationship or Marriage. Communicating with your partner should be a top priority for you. Through communication, you will have the emotional and romantic he has for you. Through communication, you can be able to pour out to each other how deep your love is. It could be through WhatsApp chat, Facebook chat, Twitter chat, and text messages as well. Romantic good morning message, in the afternoon, asking her about her day and how you are missing her, good night message expressing your love for each other. All this makes Relationships and Marriage enjoyable.
4) You kill your relationship when you don’t take the time to connect and communicate with your partner regularly. Communication is one of the live wires of a Relationship or Marriage. Communicating with your partner should be a top priority for you. Through communication, you will have the emotional and romantic he has for you. Through communication, you can be able to pour out to each other how deep your love is. It could be through WhatsApp chat, Facebook chat, Twitter chat, and text messages as well. Romantic good morning message, in the afternoon, asking her about her day and how you are missing her, good night message expressing your love for each other. All this makes Relationships and Marriage enjoyable.
5) You kill your relationship when you expect your partner to read your mind and know what you want or what’s bothering you. If you have anything bothering you, romantically call the attention of your partner, and tell him or her what it is. Your partner is not God that sees the heart of all men. Your partner is a human being just like you. You guys may have been together for some time but that doesn't mean that he or she knows you 100% so speak out when you are bothered.
6) You kill your relationship when you choose to criticize your partner. Criticism is one of the most dangerous things that can destroy your Relationship overnight. Lovely correct your partner instead of criticizing her.
7) You kill your relationship when you have unrealistic expectations of your partner. Your partner will feel crushed under the weight of your unrealistic expectations.
8) You kill your relationship when you always seek to control your partner. Being a control freak is not good for any relationship.
9) You kill your relationship when you choose to hide the truth from your partner. A relationship riddled with dishonesty is doomed to fail. Always be open-minded and say things exactly the way you know about it. Don't judge your partner by what people say about them, find out from him or her first before concluding.
10) You kill your relationship when you always seek for who to blame. You can not solve a problem when you fail to take responsibility for the role you played and instead look for who to blame. Blaming your partner will reduce the love he or she has for you and that is the beginning of your Marriage or Relationship crises.
11) You kill your relationship when you constantly nag. Nagging is the downfall of so many relationships. Be Mature, be responsible, How you present your words is important in your Relationship or Marriage. There should be a limit to what you want to do or say to each other.
12) You kill your relationship when you spend so much time on your phone and neglect your partner. Your partner is more important than your cell phone. Your partner deserves more attention from you than your cell phone. Give him or her that love and attention when you guys are together then channel it to your phone.
13) You kill your relationship when you let jealousy control you. Jealousy is not healthy and it’s a relationship killer, although is natural to be jealous it should have a limit. Even God is a jealous God, but don't allow jealousy to control you in your Relationship, or else the love you have always wished to have which makes you jealous will die overnight.
6) You kill your relationship when you choose to criticize your partner. Criticism is one of the most dangerous things that can destroy your Relationship overnight. Lovely correct your partner instead of criticizing her.
7) You kill your relationship when you have unrealistic expectations of your partner. Your partner will feel crushed under the weight of your unrealistic expectations.
8) You kill your relationship when you always seek to control your partner. Being a control freak is not good for any relationship.
9) You kill your relationship when you choose to hide the truth from your partner. A relationship riddled with dishonesty is doomed to fail. Always be open-minded and say things exactly the way you know about it. Don't judge your partner by what people say about them, find out from him or her first before concluding.
10) You kill your relationship when you always seek for who to blame. You can not solve a problem when you fail to take responsibility for the role you played and instead look for who to blame. Blaming your partner will reduce the love he or she has for you and that is the beginning of your Marriage or Relationship crises.
11) You kill your relationship when you constantly nag. Nagging is the downfall of so many relationships. Be Mature, be responsible, How you present your words is important in your Relationship or Marriage. There should be a limit to what you want to do or say to each other.
12) You kill your relationship when you spend so much time on your phone and neglect your partner. Your partner is more important than your cell phone. Your partner deserves more attention from you than your cell phone. Give him or her that love and attention when you guys are together then channel it to your phone.
13) You kill your relationship when you let jealousy control you. Jealousy is not healthy and it’s a relationship killer, although is natural to be jealous it should have a limit. Even God is a jealous God, but don't allow jealousy to control you in your Relationship, or else the love you have always wished to have which makes you jealous will die overnight.
14) You kill your relationship when you are jobless and choose to live off your partner. Nothing kills a relationship faster than a partner who chooses not to do anything to better his or her situation.
15) You kill your relationship when you hate your partner’s friends and or family. Your relationship is on a ticking time bomb when you do this. You don’t have to love your partner’s family and friends but you should not hate them.
16) You kill your relationship when you choose to define your partner by your partner’s past rather than who your partner is in the present. Focusing on the past life of your partner can destroy your Relationship overnight so forget about the past and focus on the future of your Relationship and Marriage.
15) You kill your relationship when you hate your partner’s friends and or family. Your relationship is on a ticking time bomb when you do this. You don’t have to love your partner’s family and friends but you should not hate them.
16) You kill your relationship when you choose to define your partner by your partner’s past rather than who your partner is in the present. Focusing on the past life of your partner can destroy your Relationship overnight so forget about the past and focus on the future of your Relationship and Marriage.
17) You kill your relationship when you compare your partner with an ex or the partner of a friend. No one should be a standard for your relationship. Be your standard, if you are good inwardly then let it be found in your Relationship by your partner.
18) You kill your relationship when you are always too busy to spend time with your partner. You teach your partner to live without you when you are always too busy to spend time with him or her. Time is precious and is important in your Relationship and Marriage as well so let your partner feel it. Spend time together telling love stories, eat together, Cook together and feed each other while cooking, looking each other in the eyes. It could also be in a movie center or when you attend events together.