1. The fear of losing what we have because of something foolish I do or our unwillingness to solve things. Let's not ruin this union.
2. The fear of starting well as a couple and losing our way and ending badly. Our love story should be a story of improvement.
3. The fear of hurting you the same way your exes did. I will not take you back to the pain of the past.
4. The fear of repeating the same sins and mistakes our parents did in their marriage. We should be wiser.
5. The fear of being a bad example to our children. We shape their long-term worldview.
6. The fear of toiling for so many years but ending up poor in our old age due to poor financial management. We will reap what we sow.
7. The fear of our children feeling neglected, unloved or them turning out to be adults with childhood wounds because we were not good stewards of them. Parenthood is a serious responsibility.
8. The fear of turning you to a worse person than how I found you. I should be a blessing inspiring a better you.
9. The fear of you giving me all your years in marriage and feeling wasted and regretful because I didn't love you as I vowed to. I should be the best decision you've ever made.
10. The fear of hurting God, grieving the Holy Spirit by how I treat you. God is watching us.
Fear is good, fear shows you value your marriage. Fear will lead you to action, to be better and to give your family the best; perfect love drives out all fear.
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