Whether married or still in courtship, there are things you shouldn't tell another person because you never know who will betray you. It's better to hire a counsellor and pay him or her to advise you, hence they will abide by ethics of their profession and if they share your secret without your consent you can sue them.
1. Don't tell anybody how weak your partner is. Someone may use it against them.
2. Don't tell people how much you quarrel with your partner, make them see it as perfect from outside while you settle issues from inside.
3. Don't tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband, if they ask tell them that he's giving more than you expected.
4. Men don't tell your friends how good your wife is in bed, that's a secret between you and your wife.
5. Don't ever tell your mother the way he or she is acting in the marriage, you won't like the outcome if she's a jealous Mother-in-law.
6. Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your husband or fiance and that's why you shouldn't tell them what moves him most and how good your husband is in bed, you may end up losing your husband or fiance to her.
7. Even your pastor is not worthy to know how many times you quarrel with your husband, most of them will use it as sermon. Just talk to God alone. Most of the pastors aren't good in keeping secrets neither are they counselors. Only few understands the importance of keeping people's secrets.
8. Don't tell the children that their father is a bad man. It can make them hate him and they may think you are the one who cares for them while their father hates them. Even if you have issues with their father don't try it.
9. Don't tell anybody your partner's past mistakes, it is too risky for your marriage.
10. Don't tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. They may end up winning their love. Remember the enemy of your life can't use what you never said against you.
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