Today, a man will tell your woman she is beautiful but you didn't. In fact, you haven't told her that in a very long time.
Today, a woman will appreciate your man and tell him how great he is but you didn't. In fact, your man rarely gets appreciation from you.
Today, your woman will have a man who will want to hear her laugh, see her smile and watch her walk but you do none of these things for her. She fights that other man away wishing it was you wanting her like he does.
Today, another woman will make your man laugh, check on him and notice his value, something that you rarely do. He will keep her off as he hurts asking himself why he can't have you to stimulate his laugh and peace?
Today, another man will see the crown on your woman she wears as a Queen. He will marvel at her brilliance, something you rarely do. She can't stop being a Queen, so other men won't fail to notice her, but she wishes you would most see the Queen she is.
Today, another woman will see the King that your man is, she will see his uniqueness and greatness and take note, something you rarely do. His Kingship is obvious to see and so women will pay attention to it, but he wishes that you valued it the most.
Today, someone will tell your man/woman how blessed you are to have him/her, but you don't see it.
One of the main reasons why you don't see it is because you are lusting over another person. You are desiring another person either sexually or emotionally.
You see that is what lust does to us. While we are busy yearning for someone else that we shouldn't, we get distracted and fail to notice the greatness and goodness of the one we are with.
Men, while you are lusting over that side chick, you will fail to see how blesed you are to have your Queen. This is why whenever you are cheating, you attack your wife, call her names, criticise what she does and don't care about her feelings.
Ladies, while you are lusting over another man and desiring him, you will have no time to notice how wonderfully blessed you are to have your King. This is why whenever you are cheating, you bash your husband, you become rude towards him and tell him you can have any man you want, you complain and tell him why can't he be like so and so.
Lust will keep you from seeing how blessed you are. The saddest part is that after lust has given us empty excitement and wasted us, that is the time many turn their focus back to the partner they ignored and most of the time it is too late, the relationship/marriage got destroyed because you did not maintain your focus.
Stay focused in love, lust does not last.