When you get married, you owe your partner transparency, respect, obedience and cooperation.
The men are naturally people who think with their head. Women naturally think with their emotions. This is natural that is why they say always trust a woman's instincts because we mostly work with emotions.
Please this post isn't a gender war. Abeg avoid the post if you'll bring gender issues into it. Thank you.
When you get married, it is expected that you BOTH make certain decisions together. If you discuss certain issues with your husband and he says do not do it, please communicate with him. Ask him his reasons cos as a man he must have used his head to calculate hence his decision.
Again, when you're married, you married that man for certain reasons. You married him cos you believe he is the best partner or best head of the home.
If your husband says, my wife do not invest in Eatrich, ask him why. Allow him give reasons cos it is possible that you have used your emotions to love the influencer and decide to invest. A man won't look at those things. A man will check the business and wonder if the money will crash or survive.
Also, your husband can say you should mind how you use social media. Why? It is possible that you talk alot. It is possible you reveal alot. So many men love their privacy. Not all men wants their home discussed on social media especially when you're not making money from it but even at that.
Some women are naturally stewpid. Yes! Some of you lack common sense. I see the way some of you reason and I always imagine the man that is putting up with your level of intelligence. Women in this category you need a good husband to guide you if not you'll be disgracing the family.
Why this post?
Marriage is not war Marriage is two friends building a future. Learn to communicate. Plan with your man, discuss your future with him, cooperate. Listen to him. Respect him. And yes, marriage involves obedience. If your husband says, my wife I do not trust this Eatrich pls do not invest. As a wife, obey your husband's judgment and do not invest! Same way a wife can say; my husband do not build this house now I do not trust the engineer. You should obey her!
Remember you had reasons for marrying him or marrying her and I'm sure one of it is cos you trust his or her opinion on matters.
Take your time before getting married pls. Make sure you end up with a reasonable partner.
Women who are always blocking their husbands or hiding to do things, or hiding to make money, infact any woman doing something shady they're either married to bahd or unreasonable men.
I do not believe that a man is good on one side and bad on another side. No! Marry a good partner. Let their bad side not be something that will hinder your growth,
My opinion