15 Things That Can Make One Unattractive.

There are some behaviors that kill admiration, respect, and honor especially as a woman.
Bad habits that choke your beauty and chase good people away.
Here are some of them,

1) Being unnecessarily loud in public.
Shouting, laughing carelessly, talking on the phone like it’s a market square, calm down, sis. There’s grace in being composed.

2) Cleaning your nose, ears, or picking your teeth in public.
Hygiene is good. Public display of private maintenance is NOT.

3) Flirting with every man that breathes.
It’s not confidence. It’s attention-seeking.

4) Chronic begging
Always asking people for “urgent 2k” yet never investing in yourself or your growth? It becomes irritating.

5) Stingy but loves to collect
You’ll never contribute anything when it’s your turn, but you’re the first to say “Let’s share.”

6) Too judgmental
You have an opinion on everyone’s life except your own. Phariseeism!

7) Acting like you know everything.
Correction offends you. Advice irritates you. You want to be the smartest in the room. Sis, humble yourself.

8)Monopolizing conversations
You never let others talk. Always interrupting. Always bringing it back to yourself. Learn to listen.

9) Unnecessary “notice me!” energy
Always forcing attention, sometimes let your value speak for you.

10) Modest but messy
Covering your whole body is not an excuse to dress in 7 colors like a carnival. Look decent, not disorganized. Wear things that actually suit you.

11) Being competitive in friendships
Every time your friend shares a win, instead of rejoicing with her, you bring up your own trying to take the attention. That’s not friendship.

12) Gossiping constantly
You know everybody’s gist but your life is stagnant. That mouth is not just running, it’s leaking your favor.

13) No ambition, no drive
No personal development, no goals, no skills. People may admire your beauty, but they’ll never plan reasonable things with you.

14) Always looking for “man” like oxygen
Every conversation starts and ends with “my man, my crush, my ex.” Develop a life outside romance.

15) Rudeness masked as confidence
You call it “I speak my mind,” but it’s just bad manners. Wisdom knows how and when to speak.

Aunty Liberty, this is not to condemn.
It’s to awaken you.
You’re amazing. You’re loaded.
But if you keep behaving like this, the right people will pass you by.
Work on your mindset.
Work on your manners.
Work on your habits.