1. Don't hold on to the myth that honeymoon ends a few months into marriage. You have to be deliberate about keeping it sweet
2. Be careful not to hang around friends who corrupt your mind and change your perception about your spouse
3. Please your spouse. Treat your spouse the way you want your spouse to treat you
4. Profess your love in words and show your love through actions
5. Do not wait for your spouse to do good to you for you to do good to your spouse. Let your love be genuine and coming from the heart
6. Stay humble and grateful. Ego will keep you from pleasing your spouse
7. As things get added into your marriage; children, money, promotions, stay focused on each other
8. Learn each other's love language. Love your spouse the way your spouse wants to be loved
9. Both of you should seek individual growth, this will keep you both mysterious with something to keep learning about each other
10. Apologize and forgive when wrong is done
11. Find activities to do together. Love is built on activity
12. Allow each other to explore their own interests and good quality friends; this makes you miss each other and have a lot to talk about when you finally meet
13. Flirt and compliment each other, make each other feel special
14. Don't stop being intentional about making each other smile like you used to when you two were courting. It worked then, it will work now
15. Have a vision for your marriage. This will inspire effort, faithful and commitment
16. Embrace laughter in your marriage. Don't be too uptight