The Best Way To Find A Life Partner

 When it comes to choosing a life partner, many people about in different ways...

👉 Dating.

Dating is when two people are in a relationship, getting to know themselves, examining, accessing, checking each other to know if they are suitable of to be a wife or a husband.

As a guy, if after examining and analysing the lady and she seems to have good qualities, he will then propose marriage to her.

As a lady, if the guy also seems to have good qualities, she will accept the guy's proposal and they will start preparing for marriage.

But if after dating for a while and either of them didn't find the other person suitable and worthy to be a wife or husband, the relationship will end.

This method is based on trial and error or luck and it's majorly responsible for the many heartbreaks today.

If you also check the divorce statistics, this method of choosing a life partner is a major contributor.

👉 Recommendation.

This is another way of choosing a life partner that many people explore.

This is when someone, parents, relatives, colleagues, friends or neighbours introduced or recommended a lady to a guy that is looking for a wife. 

They often based the recommendation on the good qualities or character they have seen or observed about the lady.

The guy will then check the lady out to see if it is true and from there relationship will start and then marriage if the boxes are ticked.

👉 Arranged marriage.

This method is when two families, friends, business partners, politicians, kings, etc., arrange for their children to marry each other. 

More often than not, this arrangement is not in the interest of the children but those that arranged the marriage. 

It is often to strengthen their relationships, businesses, empire, career, interests etc.

During ancient times, this was the method kings used to build alliances and strengthen their kingdoms. 

Little consideration is given to those getting married.

👉 Betrothal 

This is when someone is betrothed to another person. 

When a girl is pledged to be married to a boy when they grow up.

This is more like the last point, the only difference is that this is done when the children are still little.

👉 Matchmaking.

This is when someone who's looking for a partner goes to meet a matchmaker and tells him or her the the kind of woman and man he or she is looking and then the matchmaker will try to match him or her to someone. 

There are other methods people explore based on their culture. 

The point I'm trying to make is that there are different ways people go about choosing a life partner.

But there is a method that supersedes all the other methods. 

This method is sure and authentic. 

With this method you can be assured that you will never make a mistake nor choose the wrong person.

With this method, your chances of marrying the wrong person is zero. 

What is the method? 

👉 Prayer 

This is when you pray to God to help you or direct you to the right person. 

It is to allow God, the Originator and Inventor of marriage, in prayer to choose a partner for you

God is the Perfect Matchmaker. I believe that God still chooses life partner for those who ask Him to. 

He said concerning Adam, "I will make a helper meet(suitable, right, fit) for him."

God is still in the business of making marriage partners for the people that will acknowledge and allow Him to choose for them.

It is not by force. 

When Abraham's servant was mandated to look for a wife for Isaac, he prayed and God directed him to the right woman for Isaac.

The scripture recorded that when Rebecca came into Isaac's life, he was comforted. 

That's what the right person does, he or she brings comfort.

What I'm saying in essence is that, the best way to choose a life partner is to allow God to choose for you.

Any other way is full of trial, error, and uncertainty. 

Allow God to choose for you, that's the best way.

Before God will choose a partner for you, He will put you in consideration.

He doesn't choose anyhow.

He will choose someone that is fit and suitable for your life, destiny, purpose, personality, temperament etc. 

Let me close by saying that God does not force His will on people. 

You have the right to choose who you want to marry. 

But if you want the choice of God which is always the best, then you will have to give up your choice and right. 

If you want the will of God, you will have to give up your will.

Remember, the best way to choose a life partner is to allow God to choose for you and its not by force.

You don't have to agree with me. 

Ultimately, it is your choice and decision to choose whoever you want to marry. 


I'm committed and passionate about helping you to love right, marry right, treat your relational issues, build a happy home and live happily ever. You can talk to me about your relationship issues. 

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