7 Methods You Can Apply To Attracting A Decent Marriage Partner.

Most recent 14 days or something like that, I read a post from a woman that truly reached my heart. The post was touching and emotional. Actually, that post inspired this article.
In summary the woman said that, it gives her anxiety that she is yet to settle down in marriage at her age. Those words are truly touching and it takes a valiant woman to offer such an expression.

Very much like this bold woman, numerous women out there earnestly want to settle down, they need a man they can call their own, they need a man that will cherish and really focus on them. A lot of ladies have this desire but hardly express it for fear of being termed desperate or being used and exploited by guys. There's nothing wrong with this desire, absolutely. Don't feel bad about it and don't allow anyone to shame you because of it. 

So, what I intend to do in this article is to show you ways you can attract a good and a responsible man without appearing being desperate. I will utilize the counsel that Naomi gave Ruth, her little daughter in-law that made her to draw in and marry Boaz, a true godly wealthy man. You will find this advice in the book of Ruth 3 but my emphasis will be on verses 3 and 11 and then I will add other things. 

Let me start by saying that, it is not your job to look for a husband as a lady, it's a man's duty. Reason is because there are few men will truly love a lady that brought herself to him. Also so you don't get exploited, devalued and cheapen. A man is a hunter and he values what he got by some effort and sweat.(Proverb 18:22) Your own is to position yourself in a way that you will attract good husband and also to be found. 

So, how will you come in contact with a good and a responsible man without appearing desperate to him? 

Please I am not in the business of insulting anyone here but I want to let the cat out of the hole for everyone to learn and as well make amends where necessary.

1. Wash Yourself. I'm sorry to say this but I'm gonna be blunt, a lot of ladies are not keeping themselves neat, their clothes, their body, everything is just dirty. No responsible man will have anything to do with a lady that doesn't keep herself clean. You maybe surprise if I tell you that lack of neatness has sent many guys away from a lot of ladies.
So, wash yourself. In other words, be neat. Neatness is attractive. Furthermore, in view of how God formed your body as a woman, you ought not be messed with being neat, be neat and attractive.

2. Perfume Yourself. A ton of sisters are on this table. A considerable lot of them imagine that body splash, antiperspirant, Roll on, fragrance, and so on, are not sin to God. Applying the above mentioned stuff are not sin my dear sisters. You will continue onward from praying in one God house to another, fasting and imploring, sobbing for God to give you spouse if these things are not dealt with. You want to kill person? God won't even allow it. I know you don't as well like bad smell around you, so, my sister perfume your body, that is, smell good always. Body odour doesn't bring glory to God . Please don't misquote me, what I'm saying is smelling nice will bring more respect for you. 

3. Dress Well. Again many of sisters are on this table. As beautiful woman, fully endowed with natural and attractive things all over your body, dress smart, is not only men that should dress smart, let your appearance be inviting, look young all the time, you should not look like a woman that already have 4 children it will make people to think that you are married meanwhile you are looking for husband.

Dear sis, dress well. Look good. Your dressing speaks volume. It can make you look smart, young and old. No man will wants to get married or be attracted to an elderly woman that could be the age mate of his elder sister. Avoid dressing like an elderly woman meanwhile you are in your late 20s. Dress smartly. In short, look good. It's attractive. 
This also covers your hair. Stop covering your hair every time with heavy clothes, your hair will smell when there's no enough air going into it. Visit the salon to plait your hair and so that air can go into your hair. From head to toe, just look good. We men are attracted by many things, your hair, dress, etc. 

4. Be Visible. Many ladies want to marry but they hide themselves in the secret place of their rooms. You want to marry but attend church, you won't, even when you go, after service immediately you have left, attend functions, you won't, attend wedding, you won't, attend seminars, you won't, attend birthdays but you won't. Someone that wants to be popular is not supposed to always be in hidden places, go out to public event, associate with people. (John  chapter 7 verse 4) Dear beautiful baby Girl, exposure is very important for you to attract that husband you want. Stop hiding yourself. Position yourself to be found.

5. Be A Good Girl. Boaz told Ruth in verse 11 that, everyone knows that you are a Virtuous woman, in other words, a good girl. So, dear beautiful damsel what is people saying about you whether in your presence or not? Be a good girl always because it's more beneficial. 
Work on your character. Character is always the beauty of a woman. Beauty without character is like a gold ring in a swine pit. A good character will attract a good husband to you than anything else you may have imagined. Even if someone bath 7 times within 24 hours, 7 days a week, spray the most expensive perfume on your body, wear the best clothes but doesn't have good character, then the person is still a baby under parental care.
So, in all your attractiveness, good perfume and expensive dress, spice it up with irresistible character. Tell yourself the truth about your characters, stop saying that a man should accept you the way you are because is not easy, nobody will like to live in the same house with a someone that has a nasty character.
Because of good character someone can  recommend you to others. Good character can open doors of many opportunities for you not just the door of marriage partner. 

6. Be Approachable. Many ladies build a hedge a fire around themselves and the wall of Jerusalem and yet they still expect men to come close, Sister how? 
Remove every obstacle and obstruction. Destroy the hedge of fire and the walls of Jericho around you. Stop boning your face, who offend you? Always smile because smile is like a magnet it will attract attentions to you, it's also a sign of welcome to men who wants to approach you. Smile is attractive. Smile always. 

7. Pray about it. Bible says that, you shouldn't be worried about anything but rather you should pray about everything. (Phillip 4:6-7)
So, pray about it my sister. The scripture likewise says that God will concede you your deepest desire. Ask and you shall find. He will give you your heart desire as you have prayed to him. 
God being a loving and cherishing father he will not allow his daughter to marry someone that will be bad them. Pray and seriously ask God to give you a good husband of your dream.

So, here you have may dear sister, with these 7 ways you can attract good husband to your life. 
May the Lord order the step of the right man to you.

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