Wednesday, August 10, 2022

The Secrets Sensations Of Masturbation And Permanent Cure To Premature Ejaculation.

I get lots of questions on masturbation most particularly from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Men masturbate as well. There is no disagreement on that. I'm not here to debate about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.
A sexual urge for virgins is strong. What pushes it more powerful is the novelty, newness, mystery, and hearsays about sex. 

What is masturbation and how to resist it?
Masturbation is massaging your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage, or tickle their penis. I resolved to give an explicit answer because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies specifically non-virgins use candles, bananas, cucumber, small bottles, sticks, dildos, or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenager upward, you will have a strong passion for sex. It's a sure signal that you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and more passionate! You may wake up feeling horny for no single basis in the world or go hot on blotting a curvy lady! You may start seeing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and release something. You check up and realize you are wet. All these are normal things, you haven't done any sin.

So what then do you do when you get desirable and horny? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be seen dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate to satisfy their urge for sex! They give themselves release and satisfaction through solo sex while pleading for virginity at the same time. 

Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:
1) Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of the opposite gender in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, or someone you like but are incapable of having. You envision having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION

2) For ladies, while inserting all forms of objects, you may wrongly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your prospective partner that you never had sex with a man but with objects during your solo sex.

3) You kill your capability to enjoy sex in the future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, unfaithfulness, lesbianism, and feminism. If you are used to reaching orgasms by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger, and completely idealistic! Women who complain their husbands' penis are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been unfaithful in their relationships.

4) You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will encounter pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self-control to totally enjoy sex and give your wife full sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys lovemaking when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before bursting, leaving your wife totally unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become cold in the marriage and stop having sex ultimately which may lead to you having an affair with another woman, while your woman may start having affair with her ex-boyfriend or a colleague in the office, or both of you having an affair which will totally destroy your marriage. Self-control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are capable to slow ejaculation, go for a longer time, and having an excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total chastity pays!

5) If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have severe trouble with delayed or retarded ejaculation. Circumstances are where you get an erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel or enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unfit to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are apparently "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of humiliation. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated, and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this demeaning act helps you feel comfortable, and confident, have normal sexual intercourse, and enjoy the satisfaction that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6) You start having sex in the dream with a known or unidentified person (a demonic entity otherwise known as a spiritual spouse).
7) You feel drained, dirty, unclogged, ineffective, and powerless after each act.
8) You begin getting unsatisfied and want the real thing. You imagine more about sex and start craving for the real act.

9) You get a warped view of the opposite gender. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in a skirt or trousers -you become unfaithful to your spouse.
10) You get harmed, hurt and broken.
11) You are at risk of hell fire!

These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces!  What then should you do with your sexual urge? 
How do you endure the constant hunger for sex? The best ways to overcome masturbation and spiritual spouse easily and enjoy your marriage.

1) Avoid all dirty pictures such as pornography videos, pictures, and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual motivations!
2) Avoid friends who say dirty, lewd, and obscene things. Stop all sexy banter with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful, and helpful.

3) Get occupied with your life, education, and career, there is more to life than sex before marriage.
4) Transmute your sexual stamina: Channel your sexual vibrancy into something amazing. I had a strong sex drive in the institution. I simply channeled them into my education making me the best student in my faculty from the second year. I was very enthusiastic and energetic. I burnt the energy on my studies. I also started my ministry and was very determined as my fellowship bible study coordinator. If you don't burn that vibrancy, you will have sex.

5) Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no room for the devil and his demons in your heart.
6) Pray and speak in tongues (if you are born again) always. It sanctifies you.
7) Make friends with godly people.

8) Avoid pornography and romantic movies.
9) Get busy in kingdom service.
10) Give your life to Jesus if you are not born again. He will surely help you out.

In summary, Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive, and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. Jesus can help you. Call on him! God bless you.

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