The List Of The Characters To Look Out For When Accepting To Marry Anyone.

You can not get married to everybody. Some people are meant to be your friends or colleagues, not your marriage partner as you thought and concluded in your mind. For someone to qualify as your spouse, you must be attracted to them spiritually, socially, emotionally, intellectually, mentally, and physically -anything short of that equals marital disaster.

So many people today are in a pathetic marriages because they married someone they have no fate together with him or her.
I had a good romantic guy friend for  over 10 years. It was a captivating, pure, platonic union. We liked each other, we talked a lot and we respected each other's core values. That's where it ends. 

There was no emotional connection between us, I was not in love with him and there was no physical attraction to him. But we had stood by each other for many years. I like been there for people when they are nothing to others because I believe that whatever challenges they are facing will one day be conquered and the person will be celebrated. So he got a well income job, and wanted to settle down in marriage with someone special to his heart, he took me out for a date, and made his proposal to me there. He felt since I had stood by him all the years he was hustling, I was the best candidate for his marriage but he was inaccurate! I wasn't! I was not in love with him and he was not physically attractive to me. Please I beg you, don't get me misunderstood, this guy is good-looking at 5 feet and several inches tall to the taste of average beautiful woman out there. 

Light complexioned, well made, well groomed, smelled nice and some ladies looked at me with envy as he picked me out to spend hours with so I should have counted myself as the lucky one and jumped at his proposal but I could not get married to him, all because he had some imperfections I cannot cope with also his spiritual life is never compatible with mine spiritual lifestyle. Yet we liked each other. He felt so disappointed and deeply hurt because I said NO to his marriage proposal but I had no regret about it. I understood I wasn't what he needed physically and intellectually too so why get married?

When he met the lady he is now married to, I was very pleased for him. I know he was in love with her back then. He talked about her with joy, he glowed and shone, and was very proud of her and from his doting around her, I knew they were physically attracted to each other. His wife admires him too and she counts herself lucky to marry him. I heaved a sigh of ease!

A successful marriage is beyond physical attraction but you must be Completely CONVINCED within your spirit you are marrying your God-ordained spouse for your life.
Don't settle for less out of desperation. Don't just marry anybody.
I am now happily and joyously married to the man of my desire whom I admire and respect so much. We are all-around compatible and have high chemistry with each other.

Waiting for God's will pays. 

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