Marriage or relationship is not a war zone, and is not also a place to be keeping records of offenses, these tips listed in this article will help you to also resolve crisis quickly in your marriage.


They are;

1) To enjoy sleep. Sleep is a struggle when you are not on good terms with your spouse.

2) To prevent your spouse and yourself from being tempted into having extramarital affair. Many extramarital affairs in marriage start in moments of offense, that is when you are seriously angry at your spouse or your spouse is furious at you and an outsider gives you a shoulder to lean on or gives your spouse a shoulder to lean on.

3) To prevent a small problem or crisis from growing into a bigger problem or complications in your marriage, you have to take these steps immediately.

Any unresolved matters morph into huge hazards that will be harder to solve later in the future.

4) To show your spouse that you value what you two have together in the marriage, don't allow anger to lead your thoughts for the whole day. How much you value your marriage will be seen in how quickly you solve matters even if you are the one offended by your spouse.

5) For the sake of peace, marital harmony, and unity at home, always find it easy to resolve problems in your marriage. Your home is the one major place you should come to find peace of mind so making it hell will destabilize your personal peace. The biggest impediment to peace at home is unresolved issues between husband and wife.

6) For the sake of your children, always be eager to settle disagreements with your spouse. You cannot parent children in a healthy way if both of you are always at war against each other

7) To prevent you both from romantically drifting apart in your marriage. Each day that passed without you talking to each other very well will make you to be drifting apart from your partner.

8) To train your mind for reconciliation because your spouse is not perfect nor are you. Reconciliation is a practice you constantly need to teach yourselves if you want to have a strong marriage

9) Resolving disagreement quickly in your marriage will help you to focus on more important things such as investing together, raising children well, touching lives, and fulfilling purpose. You can't do all these in an environment of offense and anger.

10) To prevent misinterpretations and assumptions that will hurt your marriage in the long run. When you two are not on good talking terms not to talk about romance, you read too much negative meaning into each other's words and actions, assuming the worst, thus giving birth to new marital problems.

11) To prevent yourselves from resenting each other instead of loving each other. As long as you and your sweetheart don't reconcile malice, you are giving room to resentment and set back against the success of your marriage. Very soon, you will both start to despise each other and offense will lead to more offense will lead to divorce.

11) To protect your intimacy and bedroom activities. Your emotional, physical and sexual intimacy will be destroyed if you and your lover remain angry at each other for more than one day. Offenses bring emotional and physical loneliness, the frustration of lovemaking, alcoholism, and addiction. Many married couples are looking for escapes because their marriage has some crisis. Sometimes your spouse will not want to make love to you when you make attempt to make love with him or her, not because he or she is having an affair but because of some unresolved transgression committed by you which is taking time to be resolved.

12) Always be quick to solve issues in your marriage So that you and your lover can fulfill the vision of your marriage. You will not walk in agreement if you don't romantically and intimately see eye to eye. Don't destroy everything you guys have built and were meant to build for the success of your marriage.

13) So that you and your spouse don't end up divorcing due to irreconcilable differences matter in your marriage.

If you want a successful marriage then be ready to be a team player, and work together as a team with your spouse because no happy, joyous and peaceful marriage is achieved by one person in marriage.

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