How To Make Your Marriage Romantic, Sweet, Peaceful And Successful..

Friends, please ignore anybody who teaches you that marriage is a very difficult thing. That's incorrect!

On the contrary, marriage is simple. However, the challenge is that either one or both spouses often come into it with a wrong marital ideology, nasty personality, unrealistic expectations, and a lot more. Not everyone is having a problematic marriage.


I grew up surrounded by my loving parents whose marriage was and still is, a great inspiration to me. I also lived with other people whose marriages were super working. One thing I learned from these lovely people is that marriage thrives on the personalities of the two spouses. Who the spouses are will determine what their marital experience will be.

If you want a great marriage, you don't have to be the most handsome, most intelligent, most educated, richest, most fashionable, or most spiritual on earth for anyone. Of course, all these qualities are surely good, but they are not the most important requirements for any Marriage to be successful. The most important thing is the "personality factor". Who you are is the principal factor.

I Blessed God for beauty, intelligence, academic qualifications, money, and spiritual vibrancy. But if one possesses a nasty and complicated personality or character, the marriage will crash or be marred with too many crises.

Marriage was established by God but its outlook is to be designed by the spouses. That's why no two marriages look the same. Spouses have the prerogative to give their marriage the taste and coloration they want. That's why while some marriages are full of commitment, love, communication, romance, and fun, others are the exact opposite.

My marriage isn't working because I am a relationship or marriage counselor (by the way, it's not all Marriage or Relationship Counselors whose marriages are working). My marriage is working because my wife and I have the required personalities that allow marital bliss to flow. Some personalities are antimarriage no matter one's titles and social status. If you want a blissful marriage, work on yourself.

Written by Coach Joshua Akwudike. A marriage and relationship counselor. The founder of Marriage University.

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