How To Make Your MARRIAGE, Awesome, Beautiful, And Successful..

Dear newlyweds and dating couples aspiring to get married, here are a few truths:
Start the marriage right and with the right expectations. Marriage is not all excitement, marriage is a responsibility. Be ready to learn, grow, and listen.

Keep off negativity and destructive advice from bitter souls, they will corrode your marriage that has so much potential. Marriage is not a scam.
Have a well-balanced marriage. Don't just focus on one aspect of your marriage; be it spiritual, sexual, financial, parental, or emotional. Grow and be great all around. You live in a WONDERFUL TIME.

where there is an abundance of resources to help you be a better spouse and parent; you can't blame your parents for not preparing you for marriage. Tap into the resources around you.
You won't always feel love. especially when your spouse makes you mad as hell. Do not always trust your feelings. Feelings are fickle. That is not the time to decide to walk away or file for divorce.

In marriage, there will be the temptation of becoming too familiar with your spouse. Learn to keep it fresh. Don't be lured outside or value what others say at the expense of your spouse.
You will do so much for each other, make a habit of saying thank you to each other. Ungratefulness dries up a marriage.
Be polite at home too. Remember to always say "Please". Don't just be polite with others but at home completely. 

There will be challenges and maybe even mistakes. Challenges come to make you two stronger, mistakes are opportunities to learn. Don't be so quick to quit. With love, seek solutions as a team.
Put down pride and selfishness. You will have your way for some time but it will only lead to regret.

Remember how you two fell in love; respecting each other, frequent communication, and teamwork.. you will need to still do those things to keep the love.
And when you lose your way due to life's issues, return to your first love. Struggling marriages can be restored.
You two can do this! Many marriages are doing well, and yours will be one of them too.


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