Even if you are married to the best partner in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love" with someone aside from your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage. No one gets married and plans to have an affair but lots of
married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.
1) Don't be too friendly with the opposite gender. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close to the opposite gender as a married person. Your heart is involved.
Set boundaries.
Be disciplined.
Be cordial.
Be respectful.
Be godly.
Be holy.
2) Don't share your challenge with an opposite-gender friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.
3) Don't contact any opposite gender you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact them!
4) A them void unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the
opposite gender.
5) Don't tell the opposite gender you are romantic or sexy, that private information is for your spouse only.
6) Avoid discussions with the opposite gender when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy, or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things.
Talk to your husband/wife instead.
7) Avoid unnecessary compliments of the opposite gender.
8) Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite gender, for what?
9) Work on your marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance
alive in your marriage.
10) Protect your family. Don't share your marital problem with
your opposite-gendered, it will bond you.
11)Never flirt with the opposite gender.
12) Mind the pictures you post on social media. Limit
pictures that show your curves or portray you as sexy.
13) Do not contact all your EX affixes marriage.
14) Don't chat with the opposite gender on the days you are
horny.
15) Stop focusing on your spouse's weaknesses and appreciate their strengths. If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, and critical al and look for someone who can"understand" you and make you happy aside from your spouse, that is the beginning of an emotional affair and eventual sexual
affair. It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious
marriage!
FLEE from all appearances of evil is what the Bible says.
What you will not eat, don't bring it to your nose, don't smell it!
Don't start what you cannot finish!
Avoid all emotional and sexual affairs with the opposite gender, they will destroy your marriage.
Let this message get to the Good Women Leader and Men's Fellowship Leader and let them share it on their various group platforms so all married men and women will get it and save their marriage. Let them discuss it at their meetings.
The Lord will keep our homes, and marriages and keep us pure to reign with Him in Jesus' name. Amen.
May you not take a step that will lead you to eternal regret in Jesus' name.
PLEASE SEEK FOR THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT CALLED SELF-CSELF-CONTROLLWAYS ANCHOR YOUR THOUGHTS ON PHIL 4:8.
GOD BLESS YOU.
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