Long distance relationship is one of the most challenging love worlds someone can find themselves in. It takes boldness to accept it, it takes determination for one to decide if he or she can endure the pressure of the opposite gender who are physically interested in him or her for Relationship or marriage.
So many people have gone into it and got separated after some months, some got separated after some years but still, some were able to get married to each other in the end.
If you sincerely want to make your long-distance relationship work amazingly, then I think you should consider these rules below to be very important.
If you sincerely want to make your long-distance relationship work amazingly, then I think you should consider these rules below to be very important.
Sometimes you will admire being with your lover physically and romantically enjoy each other but it will be impossible. These are the moments when video calls or love messages will not be enough to fill in the vacuum of his or her absence in your heart.
Irrespective of this, you can still enjoy the best of your relationship or marriage in your partner’s absence because the list below will assist you in achieving that goal.
1) MORE DEDICATION.
Couples who see each other every day need to be dedicated, trusting, considerate, and patient with their partner, likewise being in a long-distance relationship requires you to be dedicated. Be dedicated to trusting each other, caring for each other, understanding each other, and also being more patient with each other. It will go a long way in taking care of the love between you guys.
2) SCHEDULE A MEETING TIME FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
People in this type of relationship need to have a meeting time that nothing should shift no matter how busy one of them may be. For example;
At the weekend when to meet and have some romance, in a month how and many times you should meet and have heart to heart discussion, or any agreed time that both partners need to feel each other's company.
Don't make a promise that you will be available and fail because such a promise will bring tension to the relationship that is being stressed already, and this is not what you need.
Whenever you come together, first appreciate each other, and admire each other's appearance and uniqueness, you shouldn't miss it.
3) COMMUNICATION. This is one of the life wires of every marriage or relationship. Communication is very important for everyone, irrespective of long-distance relationship or not, but more crucial for you than in a long-distance relationship. Those lovers who have been denied the opportunity of so many things because of distance shouldn't accept losing communication, as well.
It is never enough to communicate every day, you need to find a way to keep your every-minute conversations interesting, be open with your lover, be honest, and even intimate with your lover. Send love messages, good morning romantic messages, and emoji love signs.
That way, your love for each other will remain new until the day you meet.
4) THE EMOTIONAL BIG PICTURE.
Instead of worrying that your lover is cheating on you with someone else, instead of thinking only about your happiness in the relationship, think about the emotional big picture, concentrate on the beautiful and loving moments you guys have shared, and imagine within yourself the things you will do together when next you see each other, you should have positive thoughts, admire that moment. Remind yourself of the love shared, the affirmation, the romantic words. It will help to rekindle the flame of love between you guys.
5) LET EVERYTHING YOU DO BE COUNTED.
The fact that you will not be having that same time the other people have with their partners doesn't mean your own time with your lover is irrelevant, you should strive to always make ways to enjoy every minute spent together with your lover. All the meetings are online, all the chat, all the phone calls, all the video calls, all the pictures shared with him or her, all the romantic messages, all the intimacy, you have to make it worth it.
Taking notes of your happy memories will help you guys never complete a day without each other. The happy memories will be a stone that will be holding your Relationship firm if you can allow it.
With these ideas shared here, I believe your long-distance relationship will be awesome from this very moment.
Enjoy your love life.