The Power of Love in Relationships: Why Shouting and Threats Won't Win Her Over.

There was a time when a newly married young man was shouting at his 20-year-old wife and his father called him aside and said to him, 'We only shout at people our shouts or threats can frighten them. But not to your wife.

The way you are screaming, you are giving away your power to your wife. Your threats make her stronger. Most men believe that when a woman is threatened, she gets restrained, but women are not shifted with fear. A woman may stay quiet when a man is threatening and shouting at her but she is not sitting down inside her. She is evaluating the man's weakness and how to subdue him. Take your mind back to those days when men used to beat their wives flippantly at the slightest provocations, today most of those men are older and they suffer consequences.

Those women whose husbands were beaten years back are the ones enjoying the marriage with their children today, the mothers have their children's sympathy, and the men are at the receiving end. Let it become clear to men that the way into a woman's heart is not to try to threaten and subdue her. God spoke to men and said, 'Husbands, love your wife'.

Do you need a detailed description of this scripture?

Love makes women soft. When you truly love a woman and show it to her through your actions, she will relinquish to you without misgiving. But when a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy, you just want to use her or you are domineering and controlling, the spirit of rebellion takes over her. 

She might not physically stand in your way but she is planning a coup against you and one day, you will sit and watch her and her children force you to follow their rules or die quicker. Almost all the great and fierce kings you know died before their wives. They lived all through their lives threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of their strong fellow men but all the women they threatened stayed alive. Women know how to survive against men.

The 'lion' in men does scare women or get them to be with you, it is love that dominates a woman, not pressure or threats. This might subdue fellow men, but not your wife. Women naturally know how to survive the pain. They can walk to the fearful serpent and make their demands. They have a resilient spirit. There are things women fear but not the lion inside a man. 

They can be with and respect their men so foolishly that you imagine that there is no gut inside them. They have guts men don't have, love your woman into submission. Men don't have a compatible or cordial relationship with women by showing the lion inside them. God knew women before us and begged that we show love rather than threats.

He gave men the formula, and a recipe for blissful, joyous, and fulfilled homes, LOVE YOUR WIFE! This formula of loving your wife will help you win her. When a woman is loved, you break all her guts and she stays in your hands. A woman can do anything to stay with a man who is honestly in love with Her. Talk gently to your wife, love her, pet her, don't shout at her, and you will win her and make your points!

Do not arrogantly display your weakness as a man by shouting at your woman.

Could this be applied to women for their men??

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