There are simple ways to know if your man is the perfect man to spend the rest of your life with.
These attributes matter a lot regarding the happiness of your Marriage Relationship with him.
These attributes matter a lot regarding the happiness of your Marriage Relationship with him.
1) FAITHFUL.
Any Man can run around playing games and disrespecting the sanctity of MARRIAGE without feeling guilty, as we see and hear every day, but Real Men stick to one Woman, one of course, and to their Marriage vows Faithfully not minding what may come as a storm.
Proverbs 20:6 "Most MEN will proclaim every one his goodness: but a FAITHFUL MAN who can find?".
Without Faithfulness, a Man is no different from a MERCENARY.
2) SELF CONTROL.
I was reading yesterday of a Man who impregnated his wife and also got their house help and his wife's younger sister pregnant at the same time.
Any Man can run around playing games and disrespecting the sanctity of MARRIAGE without feeling guilty, as we see and hear every day, but Real Men stick to one Woman, one of course, and to their Marriage vows Faithfully not minding what may come as a storm.
Proverbs 20:6 "Most MEN will proclaim every one his goodness: but a FAITHFUL MAN who can find?".
Without Faithfulness, a Man is no different from a MERCENARY.
2) SELF CONTROL.
I was reading yesterday of a Man who impregnated his wife and also got their house help and his wife's younger sister pregnant at the same time.
He's not to be mentioned as a good husband because he doesn't have self-control.
Proverbs 25:28 He that hath no rule over his spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.
3) HUMILITY.
Leadership and Power without Humility will lead to Dictatorship and a REGIME instead of a MARRIAGE.
A proud Man will not make corrections, or respect his wife's opinion and this is very crucial.
Even God changed his mind and decisions when Righteous Men prevailed on him in scripture, how much more a Man to say things like "once my mind is made up, nobody can make me change it"?
That's not a Man, that's HITLER.
4) VISIONARY.
Proverbs 29:18 "Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he."
A Real Man has a PLAN for his Life and anything he does, including Marriage.
He knows what he wants when he wants it and how to get it.
He's not playing a game of trying your luck.
Everything he does is INTENTIONAL and carefully thought out, before taking action.
A Man without a Vision? That's a boy or rather call him a KID.
5) GODLY
A Real Man fears and Loves God.
A Real Man understands the importance and place of God in everything he does. His Marriage, his business, and his Life.
Without God, a Man is NOTHING.
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